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I have never visited this newsgroup before yesterday and am amazed at the variety of topics. I posted a short reply to the "average divorce cost thread" and from there just lurked. So many stories sound similar to mine. This will be my last post however because my divorce has been final for a year now and since I have moved on I do not wish to keep reliving the pain. What follows is part of a short story that has been of interest to professional writers for magazines such as Reader’s Digest. My story could really be a Sunday night mini series. So to make a short story shorter I will tell you all just how ugly it can get. My ex wife and I met in the summer of 1988, She was 20 and enrolled at a major university. I was 27, owned my own construction business and also owned my own home that I purchased when I was 25. My ex finished college with honors (fifth in her class of 5000) I never finished college, I took some business courses locally and when opportunities in the construction field arose I pursued them. We dated for four years before being married. I visited her nearly every other weekend in her last two years of college. To make the 450 mile round trip drive I purchased a new ‘88 Thundebird so I would not have to use my work truck to take her on dates. I really loved that time in my life, I loved her. I did notice that she had some insecurity at this time. If I hinted that I might not be able to visit she would cry and accuse me of having other girlfriends. This usually led to changing plans on my part and in one instance driving 8 hours in a blizzard for a normal 3-1/2 hour trip. Every time I would leave on Sunday night she would cry. After she graduated we saw a lot of each other. We always had something planned, the beach, fishing, the park, museums, etc. The thing I remember most though is the hours we would spend just sitting on the front porch at my house just talking. Yes there was some sex but I really respected this woman and did not want to abuse the privilege. We pretty much had sex when she wanted to which was fine with me because early on it became quite often and multiple times a day. I never really hinged our relationship on sex though. I genuinely loved her for who she was. I had many kinky and wild girlfriends prior to my ex and It was time I started to think about having a family with a good girl. We were married in the spring of ‘92 and honeymooned in Hawaii for two weeks. It was like a dream then but now I look back and wonder how I could have been so in love with this person. The sickness from that point on nearly put.me in an institution. One day early on in the marriage we were getting ready for work and I was looking for something. I looked in the top drawer of the dresser and in the back of the drawer I found various anti depressants. I questioned her about it and she broke down saying that she was afraid to tell me that she had depression problems presently and an eating disorder in her late teens. Although I comforted her and told her that I understood and every thing would be ok, I felt in a way i received "damaged goods". Our lives went on as a hard working couple with desire to have a family and a beautiful home. I renovated what was now our house and added a 800 square foot addition. I did this nearly all myself in my spare time, nights and weekends. This is the way I thought it was supposed to be: work hard now to relax later in life. Was I wrong. When my ex became pregnant she cried to me that she wanted to be a mommy and she did not want to work any longer. I was thrilled that I was going to be a father and a provider but also concerned about what our financial situation would be like with just one income. Our first child was born in 1994, a precious boy. I was the happiest man alive. Not only was I a father with a beautiful wife I was offered a sales job with a world leading millwork company in Pennsylvania. Since I would be on the road in the tri-state area it did not require a relocation. I excelled at this job and soon became the top producer in the company. I was not only the top sales rep but also the one of the top people with product knowledge. After about two years the job began to pay very well and we were able to live quite comfortably (Volvos, jewlery, mink coat, vacations, country club, toys for kids, etc.) in 1997 our beautiful daughter was born. Sure I wanted another boy but when I first saw her she was my world. I knew she would always be Daddy’s girl. Life could not be better for me at this point. I never finished college yet I had everthing I ever dreamed of. We even started to look at real estate along the Jersey coast for a summer home. I had the world by the balls and I was not letting go. As time went on my ex started to get bored with being a mommy/housewife. She wanted to go back to a lo a local school to get her masters and continue her career as a financial specialist. I was all for it, her mother came to live with us during the week to care for the children and it worked out quite well. Unfortunately there were things I could not control. I lost my mother and grandfather but with faith in god and the comfort of my ex I got through it all right. I do have grade school friends of 35 years but family was always first with me. The only extra carricular thing I did in my marriage was an occasional sporting event with friends. Most of the time I would go with my ex or my son. There was no golf, poker, go-go bars, mistresses, etc. I was far from perfect but I was a true family man. I don’t want to sound like father of the year but I was good to my family. My ex and I had our share of disputes but it was always over minor silly things. I would just let her think she was the boss and everything would blow over. Now for the juicy but painful part. The on topic part: How To Properly Leave Your Spouse. There really is no proper way when there is infidelity and other deviant injustices. Some relatinships nd more gracefully than others. On June 3, 2000 we were to take a family trip to Virginia for my godson’s christening. At about 2:00 on Friday my ex informs me she is "unhappy" and did not wish to go to this entire family function. I said fine, the children and I will attend. I had a very bad feeling of suspicion but had a wonderful time with the rest of my family anyway. When I returned home Sunday night my ex was acting very strange. My suspicions grew so after putting the children to bed I did some digging around. I checked the caller ID and noticed that all calls from friday to sunday night were deleted. Rather stange because we usually got 10 to 15 calls a day and I phoned from Virginia twice. I just slept on my worst fears. Something was telling me things were not right. The next day I get a call from my ex at work and she says we have to talk. I knew immediately that things were not good. We talked that evening and she mentioned the possibility of a divorce. I was floored. I could not understand why. She just said she was unhappy. I kept control and thought it would pass with time. She retired to bed and left me sitting on the couch with the world on my shoulders. I said fuck this and started digging again. If she would not give me anymore information than "I’m unhappy" I would have to find out the truth myself. The first thing I did was go through the garbage which gave no clues except for a wine bottle. A bit odd since I wouldn’t think she would drink alone. Then I dialed her cellular voice mailbox and somehow got into her message box. My worst fear was real, another man. Detailed love messages going back two months. It felt like someone hit me in the chest with an axe. I laid on the couch all night without a wink of sleep. When I confronted her she denied everything. I dialed her cell number and played the messages in front of her and although visibly nervous she continued denial. I gave it time by being forgiving and caring. I went to church almost daily and prayed for our family. About three weeks later I confronted her again and wanted to know how serious this extra relationship was. She just blew it off as "a guy at work that is infactuated with me." Bullshit, I knew better. I had so much evidence of adultry at this point I made me sick. Not to mention about $300,000 of joint assets that were now in her name. I called my attorney and told him to draw up divorce papers ( I was the plaintiff). He warned me of one thing and he was so right. The woman will almost always look for a way to get the man out of the house with a domestic violence charge. I said impossible, I never have raised a hand to my wife. He just told me to be careful. It happened. I was charged with domestic violence. How? Well at the end of June 2000 I realized things were over because she just was not willing to make things work. We had another discussion about our future together. I offered to go to marriage counseling I even spoke with her shrink. She was unresponsive. She was ready to throw away a third of our lives for a relationship with a fellow work associate. I pleaded with her on the effect it would have on our young children’s lives. She did not seem to care. It was then I realized how selfish she really was. It was at that point I went to the liquor cabinet and poured a full glass of Jack Daniels. This would be the first drink I had in 16 years. (I never drank a drop throughout our marriage but man did I drink in divorce.) I raised the glass and stated "here’s to divorce". Before I could even finish the glass of bourbon she was on the phone with the police. She told the police "My husband is drinking and I feel my life is in danger". I immediately put on my coat and walked to the end of the driveway to wait for the police to arrive. When they arrived I just asked them to turn off the lights and asked that they not handcuff me in front … read more »
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did not know that icq was leaving logs, is it true???
Very true… many of the freebee messingers act as spys, reporting all sorts of info to the varrious manufacturers.
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<reposted in the event webtv fails I have never visited this newsgroup before yesterday and am amazed at the variety of topics. I posted a short reply to the "average divorce cost thread" and from there just lurked. So many stories sound similar to mine. This will be my last post however because my divorce has been final for a year now and since I have moved on I do not wish to keep reliving the pain. What follows is part of a short story that has been of interest to professional writers for magazines such as Reader’s Digest. My story could really be a Sunday night mini series. So to make a short story shorter I will tell you all just how ugly it can get. My ex wife and I met in the summer of 1988, She was 20 and enrolled at a major university. I was 27, owned my own construction business and also owned my own home that I purchased when I was 25. My ex finished college with honors (fifth in her class of 5000) I never finished college, I took some business courses locally and when opportunities in the construction field arose I pursued them. We dated for four years before being married. I visited her nearly every other weekend in her last two years of college. To make the 450 mile round trip drive I purchased a new ‘88 Thunderbird so I would not have to use my work truck to take her on dates. I really loved that time in my life, I loved her. I did notice that she had some insecurity at this time. If I hinted that I might not be able to visit she would cry and accuse me of having other girlfriends. This usually led to changing plans on my part and in one instance driving 8 hours in a blizzard for a normal 3-1/2 hour trip. Every time I would leave on Sunday night she would cry. After she graduated we saw a lot of each other. We always had something planned, the beach, fishing, the park, museums, etc. The thing I remember most though is the hours we would spend just sitting on the front porch at my house just talking. Yes there was some sex but I really respected this woman and did not want to abuse the privilege. We pretty much had sex when she wanted to which was fine with me because early on it became quite often and multiple times a day. I never really hinged our relationship on sex though. I genuinely loved her for who she was. I had many kinky and wild girlfriends prior to my ex and It was time I started to think about having a family with a good girl. We were married in the spring of ‘92 and honeymooned in Hawaii for two weeks. It was like a dream then but now I look back and wonder how I could have been so in love with this person. The sickness from that point on nearly put.me in an institution. One day early on in the marriage we were getting ready for work and I was looking for something. I looked in the top drawer of the dresser and in the back of the drawer I found various anti depressants. I questioned her about it and she broke down saying that she was afraid to tell me that she had depression problems presently and an eating disorder in her late teens. Although I comforted her and told her that I understood and every thing would be ok, I felt in a way I received "damaged goods". Our lives went on as a hard working couple with desire to have a family and a beautiful home. I renovated what was now our house and added a 800 square foot addition. I did this nearly all myself in my spare time, nights and weekends. This is the way I thought it was supposed to be: work hard now to relax later in life. Was I wrong. When my ex became pregnant she cried to me that she wanted to be a mommy and she did not want to work any longer. I was thrilled that I was going to be a father and a provider but also concerned about what our financial situation would be like with just one income. Our first child was born in 1994, a precious boy. I was the happiest man alive. Not only was I a father with a beautiful wife I was offered a sales job with a world leading millwork company in Pennsylvania. Since I would be on the road in the tri-state area it did not require a relocation. I excelled at this job and soon became the top producer in the company. I was not only the top sales rep but also the one of the top people with product knowledge. After about two years the job began to pay very well and we were able to live quite comfortably (Volvos, jewelry, mink coat, vacations, country club, toys for kids, etc.) in 1997 our beautiful daughter was born. Sure I wanted another boy but when I first saw her she was my world. I knew she would always be Daddy’s girl. Life could not be better for me at this point. I never finished college yet I had everything I ever dreamed of. We even started to look at real estate along the Jersey coast for a summer home. I had the world by the balls and I was not letting go. As time went on my ex started to get bored with being a mommy/housewife. She wanted to go back to a lo a local school to get her masters and continue her career as a financial specialist. I was all for it, her mother came to live with us during the week to care for the children and it worked out quite well. Unfortunately there were things I could not control. I lost my mother and grandfather but with faith in god and the comfort of my ex I got through it all right. I do have grade school friends of 35 years but family was always first with me. The only extra curricular thing I did in my marriage was an occasional sporting event with friends. Most of the time I would go with my ex or my son. There was no golf, poker, go-go bars, mistresses, etc. I was far from perfect but I was a true family man. I don’t want to sound like father of the year but I was good to my family. My ex and I had our share of disputes but it was always over minor silly things. I would just let her think she was the boss and everything would blow over. Now for the juicy but painful part. The on topic part: How To Properly Leave Your Spouse. There really is no proper way when there is infidelity and other deviant injustices. Some relationships end more gracefully than others. On June 3, 2000 we were to take a family trip to Virginia for my godson’s christening. At about 2:00 on Friday my ex informs me she is "unhappy" and did not wish to go to this entire family function. I said fine, the children and I will attend. I had a very bad feeling of suspicion but had a wonderful time with the rest of my family anyway. When I returned home Sunday night my ex was acting very strange. My suspicions grew so after putting the children to bed I did some digging around. I checked the caller ID and noticed that all calls from Friday to Sunday night were deleted. Rather strange because we usually got 10 to 15 calls a day and I phoned from Virginia twice. I just slept on my worst fears. Something was telling me things were not right. The next day I get a call from my ex at work and she says we have to talk. I knew immediately that things were not good. We talked that evening and she mentioned the possibility of a divorce. I was floored. I could not understand why. She just said she was unhappy. I kept control and thought it would pass with time. She retired to bed and left me sitting on the couch with the world on my shoulders. I said fuck this and started digging again. If she would not give me anymore information than "I’m unhappy" I would have to find out the truth myself. The first thing I did was go through the garbage which gave no clues except for a wine bottle. A bit odd since I wouldn’t think she would drink alone. Then I dialed her cellular voice mailbox and somehow got into her message box. My worst fear was real, another man. Detailed love messages going back two months. It felt like someone hit me in the chest with an axe. I laid on the couch all night without a wink of sleep. When I confronted her she denied everything. I dialed her cell number and played the messages in front of her and although visibly nervous she continued denial. I gave it time by being forgiving and caring. I went to church almost daily and prayed for our family. About three weeks later I confronted her again and wanted to know how serious this extra relationship was. She just blew it off as "a guy at work that is infatuated with me." Bullshit, I knew better. I had so much evidence of adultery at this point I made me sick. Not to mention about $300,000 of joint assets that were now in her name. I called my attorney and told him to draw up divorce papers ( I was the plaintiff). He warned me of one thing and he was so right. The woman will almost always look for a way to get the man out of the house with a domestic violence charge. I said impossible, I never have raised a hand to my wife. He just told me to be careful. It happened. I was charged with domestic violence. How? Well at the end of June 2000 I realized things were over because she just was not willing to make things work. We had another discussion about our future together. I offered to go to marriage counseling I even spoke with her shrink. She was unresponsive. She was ready to throw away a third of our lives for a relationship with a fellow work associate. I pleaded with her on the effect it would have on our young children’s lives. She did not seem to care. It was then I realized how selfish she really was. It was at that point I went to the liquor cabinet and poured a full glass of Jack Daniels. This would be the first drink I had in 16 years. (I never drank a drop throughout our marriage but man did I drink in divorce.) I raised the glass and stated "here’s to divorce". Before I could even finish the glass of bourbon she was on the phone with the police. She told the police "My husband is drinking and I feel my life is in danger". I immediately put on my coat and walked to the end of the driveway to wait for the police to arrive. When they arrived I just asked them to turn off the lights and asked … read more »
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even if your child was making the story up, it wouldnt matter, if thats what worked for you good for you, and best wishes for a happy future 
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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Hang in there, Paul. I’ll bet most of the people here have some tale of woe regarding how a cheating spouse was uncovered….. My ex is a veterinarian at an Animal Teaching Hospital in our state. When she told me she had lab work to finish and she’d be home later, I thought I’d bring dinner to her….. Well, let it suffice to say the lab SHE was conducting DIDN’T involve any Cocker Spaniel or Golden Retreiver she even mentioned….it was another vet, you guessed it…..3 was a crowd, and that was that…. Matt
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You forgot the part about filing a bogus DVI against them as "icing on the cake" so they can’t work, have no defense in court, and can’t try to reconcile with you. Now, add another twist of the other man being more than one and things get weird….but that’s another story. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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Me too…..people who knew me, but not each other, were stopping by to tell me about it, including co-workers.
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – You go Paul! Same thing happened here but I found out a different way. hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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I know I am not the only one. Everybody has their story and I sympathize. However, it doesn’t help to take the hurt away. Thanks!
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hang in there, Paul. I’ll bet most of the people here have some tale of woe regarding how a cheating spouse was uncovered….. My ex is a veterinarian at an Animal Teaching Hospital in our state. When she told me she had lab work to finish and she’d be home later, I thought I’d bring dinner to her….. Well, let it suffice to say the lab SHE was conducting DIDN’T involve any Cocker Spaniel or Golden Retreiver she even mentioned….it was another vet, you guessed it…..3 was a crowd, and that was that…. Matt
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My daughter wasn’t making anything up. Nothing worse than taking your child for a weekend and being called kirby instead of daddy. I checked up on this, simply by asking the wife and that confirmed everything. Does life get better than this? I think not!!!
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ICQ has a "history".
Even if ICQ messages aren’t saved in a history file, snippets of messages somehow end up in ICQ database files. Believe me, I know.
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I can actually feel the tension in the air as the ASD subscribers wonder – what have I said in ICQ that I shouldn’t have? I have not used ICQ much in the last 2 years but clearing the history used to be a pain in the… usually a two step process not easily done by the technically challenged. John
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ICQ has a "history".
did not know that icq was leaving logs, is it true??? igor * My first wife said there was no one. I opened up her ICQ log files in a
text editor and read * some crap…. very explicate. He dumped her two weeks after they finally
met. She still did not * want to come back. A year later she started seeing some guy in LA with
$$$. Now jets back and * forth. * * John * *
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – * Well after several days of suspicious behavior I put a keylogger on our * computer and captured her hotmail password then read her fucking love * letters. What a shock. Not as bad as what happened to you, granted but it * still shook my world. * * * What was your way???? * * * You go Paul! * * Same thing happened here but I found out a different way. * * * hi there, * I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. * The * best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them * for * a * another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and * how * much * they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you * through * "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for * poorer, * for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is * to * spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to * top * it * all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out * about * it * through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! * Thanks for listening * Paul * * * * * * * * * * *
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same here but with my friend and my 13 year old knew for 6 months. i found out after he moved her in and kicked me out. I’m slowly recovering it has only been 5 months
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Welcome to the club Paul. Lori Mc hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul —–= Posted via Newsfeeds.Com, Uncensored Usenet News =—– http://www.newsfeeds.com – The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! —–== Over 80,000 Newsgroups – 16 Different Servers! =—–
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I just had a thought while reading this.. (yes, it’s twue!!).. Seriously, tho. After i expressed to my ex that i felt we should get a divorce, he bought me a computer… I came home from work one day and there was this huge present, wrapped, in the living room. He included a card with it, that it was an unconditional gift. That whether i left or stayed, it was mine (i had been sharing the "family" computer with my son prior to that)… I wondered if it had been an attempt to "buy" me back, or what. I told him i couldn’t accept it, and he insisted that he wanted me to have it…. I wonder if he wanted to find out if i was having an online affair, as this computer would be there quite awhile before i moved out, since i was having surgery and stuff… I don’t think so, tho.. (and no, i wasn’t)…. He’s just not the type to plan things out like that…. Later, tho, in the divorce when i found out all the money had been taken out of the bank accounts, he said it was so he could buy me a computer… hmmmm… i never asked for one… I never understood this move… He said we were so poor…. It could have been, just as he stated, a token of friendship and nothing more? I don’t know… I tried to return it and he wouldn’t have it… he knew i was not the type to be bought…… So i still have it… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My first wife said there was no one. I opened up her ICQ log files in a text editor and read some crap…. very explicate. He dumped her two weeks after they finally met. She still did not want to come back. A year later she started seeing some guy in LA with $$$. Now jets back and forth. John Well after several days of suspicious behavior I put a keylogger on our computer and captured her hotmail password then read her fucking love letters. What a shock. Not as bad as what happened to you, granted but it still shook my world. What was your way???? You go Paul! Same thing happened here but I found out a different way. hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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Yeah mine is with a Irish Dr. jetting back and forth to Ireland, England, and Europe. I guess it didn’t take long for her to tire of the 9" penis guy I read about in her letters.
My first wife said there was no one. I opened up her ICQ log files in a
text editor and read some crap…. very explicate. He dumped her two weeks after they finally
met. She still did not want to come back. A year later she started seeing some guy in LA with
$$$. Now jets back and forth. John
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well after several days of suspicious behavior I put a keylogger on our computer and captured her hotmail password then read her fucking love letters. What a shock. Not as bad as what happened to you, granted but it still shook my world. What was your way???? You go Paul! Same thing happened here but I found out a different way. hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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Well after several days of suspicious behavior I put a keylogger on our computer and captured her hotmail password then read her fucking love letters. What a shock. Not as bad as what happened to you, granted but it still shook my world. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – What was your way???? You go Paul! Same thing happened here but I found out a different way. hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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My first wife said there was no one. I opened up her ICQ log files in a text editor and read some crap…. very explicate. He dumped her two weeks after they finally met. She still did not want to come back. A year later she started seeing some guy in LA with $$$. Now jets back and forth. John – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well after several days of suspicious behavior I put a keylogger on our computer and captured her hotmail password then read her fucking love letters. What a shock. Not as bad as what happened to you, granted but it still shook my world. What was your way???? You go Paul! Same thing happened here but I found out a different way. hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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Welcome to the club Paul. Lori Mc – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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Seems you have a right to be bitter, but don’t let it destroy you. Best wishes…take care. –TNS – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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You go Paul! Same thing happened here but I found out a different way. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul
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What was your way????
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – You go Paul! Same thing happened here but I found out a different way. hi there, I have learned, through experience, how to properly leave your spouse. The best way to completely ruin the life of a loved one is to drop them for a another. Regardless of how much they may love and cherish you, and how much they may have done for you, and how good they may have treated you through "good times and bad, in sickness and in health, for richer and for poorer, for as long as you both shall live" the best way to get rid of them is to spread your legs for the first pretty face that comes along. And to top it all off, the best thing for you to do is let your spouse find out about it through your 3 year old child. I am a very bitter man! Thanks for listening Paul